The North Carolina community and beyond are mourning the tragic and untimely loss of TJ Costello, a beloved husband, father, Marine, and former Navy football standout.

TJ passed away unexpectedly, leaving behind a legacy defined by service, strength, brotherhood, and unwavering dedication to his family and country. “Taken far too soon… TJ was a warrior in every essence of the word,” wrote one of his brothers-in-arms.

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“A fierce competitor on the gridiron who held others to his standard, which helped set the standard for the resurgence of Navy football… A guy many looked up to in the locker room, a decorated Marine, a dedicated husband and father as well… Losing a brother is never easy, but this one stings. RIP brother!”

Those words reflect the deep admiration and profound grief felt by all who knew TJ Costello. He was a man who lived with purpose and passion in everything he did—from the football field to the battlefield, and most importantly, at home with his wife and children.

TJ’s journey was marked by excellence from the start. As a standout athlete at the United States Naval Academy, he helped lead the resurgence of the Navy football program, not only through his physical skill and relentless drive, but by elevating everyone around him.

He was the kind of teammate who set the tone in the locker room—demanding greatness, offering encouragement, and never settling for anything less than full effort. But his greatness extended far beyond football.

After his time at the Academy, TJ answered the call to serve as a United States Marine. Through multiple deployments, he demonstrated bravery, leadership, and integrity. His service earned him the respect of his fellow Marines and the gratitude of a nation.

He was a decorated Marine, honored for his contributions and sacrifices, but never one to seek recognition. TJ was humble and focused, always looking out for the Marines beside him.

At home, TJ was the foundation of his family. He was a devoted husband and an engaged, loving father whose greatest joy came from time spent with his children.

Whether on the sidelines of a youth game, helping with homework, or simply sharing a meal, TJ poured his heart into fatherhood with the same dedication he gave to everything else in life. His love for his family was steadfast and deep, and his absence leaves a space that cannot be filled.

TJ Costello was more than his accomplishments—he was a man of courage, principle, and compassion. He leaves behind a powerful legacy: one of service to others, loyalty to those he loved, and a fierce, unrelenting commitment to excellence.

As his family, friends, fellow servicemembers, and teammates mourn his loss, they will also carry forward his spirit. In the face of tragedy, they remember TJ not just for the battles he fought, but for the lives he touched.

Funeral arrangements will be announced in the coming days. In the meantime, the community is asked to keep the Costello family in their thoughts and prayers.

Rest in peace, TJ. Your strength, your leadership, and your love will never be forgotten.