Four months is a long time to wonder if someone you love is still breathing somewhere, and for Tomis Hoyt’s family, every single one of those days was spent trapped between hope and horror The 36-year-old mother of two was last seen alive on July 13, walking barefoot down a road in Mars Hill, Maine, wearing clothes that were already falling apart and carrying absolutely nothing that could help her survive wherever she was heading. Tomis had spent nearly ten years sober, building a life for her kids in Presque Isle after fighting through addiction that nearly destroyed her
Four months is a long time to wonder if someone you love is still breathing somewhere, and for Tomis Hoyt’s family, every single one of those days was spent suspended between hope and horror. The 36-year-old mother of two vanished on July 13, last seen walking barefoot along a rural road in Mars Hill, Maine. Her clothes were tattered, her steps unsteady,
And she carried nothing—no phone, no bag, not even shoes—suggesting she was in distress and utterly unprepared for the cold nights, dense woods, and long stretches of uninhabited land that surrounded her.For Tomis’ family, the image of her that day is the one they couldn’t outrun: a vulnerable woman walking alone into a landscape that offered danger at every turn.
What made her disappearance even more heartbreaking was how hard she had fought to rebuild her life. After nearly a decade of sobriety, Tomis had pieced together stability in Presque Isle, working, parenting, and proving—to herself most of all—that she could rise from an addiction that once threatened to destroy her. Her children were her anchor. Her recovery was her pride.
But in the weeks leading up to her disappearance, something had shifted. Loved ones noticed signs of struggle returning—small at first, then impossible to ignore. Even so, no one imagined she would simply walk away from her home, her routine, and her kids without a word.For four agonizing months, search teams combed woods, fields, and abandoned structures.
Volunteers organized community searches, distributed flyers, and held onto the belief that Tomis might still be somewhere, disoriented but alive. Every clue felt like a lifeline; every dead end, a blow.Her family’s devotion never wavered. They spoke her name loudly, prayed for her safety, and refused to let her be forgotten. Whatever truths emerge, one thing is certain: the world Tomis left behind will never be the same without her.
